Ladipoe has shared his thoughts on the growing discussion around the “billing culture” in relationships. The rapper expressed his views on how financial expectations play a role between men and women, questioning some of the stories people tell online about who pays for what in relationships.
He stated that if someone invites another person to dinner, it’s only natural that they should pay. According to him, the conversation around this issue shouldn’t even exist, as reasonable people usually work things out without drama. He also admitted that he often doubts the truth behind many of the viral stories people share on social media.
“I really wonder if people are telling the truth with the stories they say online because if you’re with a reasonable person, it usually works itself out. If I invite you to dinner, I’m paying. I don’t understand why there’s even a conversation about it. I feel like I don’t believe people’s stories,…”
Ladipoe also touched on the societal expectation that men must always provide. He acknowledged that there is a certain energy attached to being a man, which includes the responsibility of providing. However, he also pointed out that relationships should be about more than just financial support. While providing is important, he believes there should be a balance, and a man should not feel like he is the only one giving in a relationship.
Reflecting on his personal experience, he revealed that apart from his mother, aunties, and family, no woman has ever sent him money. The only exception was when his big cousin once sent him 60 dollars while he was in college. This experience made him realize how rare it is for men to receive financial support from women.
Ladipoe went on to praise his current partner, saying that she gives to him “just because.” According to him, she pours into him as much as he gives to her, and that balance is what motivates him to provide for her. He emphasized that nobody wants to feel taken advantage of, and in a healthy relationship, both partners should contribute in different ways.
His take on the issue has sparked discussions online, with many people agreeing that relationships should be about mutual support rather than one-sided expectations.
