Nollywood actress Laide Bakare has sparked heated debates online after revealing that she introduced her daughter to clubbing and alcohol at the age of 17. Speaking with content creator Mr Lilgaga, Laide Bakare explained that she took pride in the fact that her daughter would remember her as the person who first exposed her to nightlife and drinks. “I took my daughter to the club for the first time at 17. And I like the fact that in her memoir, she would reference me as the person who introduced her to alcohol and clubbing,” the actress stated.
The disclosure has divided public opinion, with many criticizing Bakare for what they consider reckless parenting. Social media users took to X (formerly Twitter) to express their thoughts. Some argue that exposing a teenager to alcohol and nightclubs at 17 is irresponsible and could encourage risky behavior. One user, It_hafizski, commented, “Introducing a 17-year-old to alcohol and nightlife is reckless parenting, not cruise. At that age, guidance and discipline should come first, not clubbing.” Others, like Just_2undey, were equally critical, saying, “Some of these people are not worth the pedestal the people place them on. All these coming from someone that calls herself a mother.”
On the other hand, some fans defended Bakare, noting that supervising her daughter might prevent worse decisions. Brainpink argued, “Make una leave her, that’s how she wants to train her girl. Because if you dey overprotect, sometimes she will still go to the club, drink alcohol and still smoke join, and you won’t notice. But sha, small small ooo.” Another user, Sturbyrich, added, “Low-key this thing normal, at least her daughter will be free to talk to her about anything. If she no carry her go club, she’ll still go by herself and might even do worse things.”
Bakare’s revelation highlights the challenges parents face in balancing freedom and supervision for teenagers. While some see her approach as liberal parenting, others believe it crosses a line. Regardless of the opinions, the conversation underscores a broader debate on how much independence is appropriate for teens and how parents can guide them responsibly.
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